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Life can sometimes feel incomplete. You may find yourself putting in effort—whether in a relationship, your career, or your personal growth—only to feel like something is still missing. It’s frustrating and disheartening. Many people feel this way, which is why they turn to therapy for support.
As a therapist, I often meet clients who feel stuck, unsure of what’s wrong, but certain something important is absent. It might be a marriage that’s in trouble, a persistent sense of anxiety or depression, or a feeling of emptiness that lingers for no clear reason. Therapy is about exploring what’s causing that feeling and how to heal from it.
Uncovering What’s Missing
Therapy provides a space to figure out what’s lacking in your life. Maybe it’s unresolved trauma, an unfulfilling relationship, or a deeper emotional need that’s gone unaddressed. The process of counselling helps you understand these gaps and the impact they’ve had on your well-being.
Sometimes, the issue is recent and easier to pinpoint—like relationship struggles or work stress. Other times, it stems from long-buried pain or unresolved events from your past. No matter the source, therapy helps you explore what’s missing and guides you toward healing.
Healing from Trauma
One of my clients, for example, had endured sexual abuse as a child and suffered further abuse in adult relationships. She once asked me, “I’m never going to not have these memories, am I?” She was right—therapy doesn’t erase painful memories. But what it can do is help "detoxify" them, making them less overwhelming.
While her traumatic past will always be a part of her story, therapy has helped her process those memories, grieve what was lost, and begin to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This kind of healing takes time, but it allows people to move forward in life, creating new, positive experiences that aren’t overshadowed by the past.
Building a Healthier Future
Healing through therapy isn’t about forgetting what happened. It’s about learning how to live with your experiences while building a healthier, more satisfying life. Louis L’Amour once wrote, “No memory is ever alone; it’s at the end of a trail of memories, a dozen trails that each have their own associations.” Therapy helps you understand those connections and gives you the tools to manage difficult emotions when they arise.
While therapy can’t undo the past, it can help you cope with your feelings, come to terms with what’s been lost, and begin to rebuild your life in a more meaningful way.
If you’re feeling like something’s missing in your life—whether in your relationships, your mental health, or your overall sense of well-being—therapy can help. Contact me today to schedule a consultation. Together, we’ll explore what’s missing and work towards healing and growth.
““Out of your vulnerability will come your strength.”
Counselling can’t change what life brings – but it can help how you respond to it. Talking with a counsellor gives you the chance to step outside yourself and look at your life from a different perspective.
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Cert.Ed., R.M.N., Dip.Couns., M.A.
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